The other cognitive technique to deal
with one’s stress and anxiety is by developing rational thinking.
Let us learn how to do it-
First of all it is very important to
understand two main parts of exam anxiety
a. Thoughts b.
Feelings
You may be aware that the way we think
affects the way we feel.
Imagine a party you recently attended
and enjoyed a lot.
Now imagine every detail of it: your
friends, foods, music, lights etc. While you are imagining the great party, how
are you feeling?
I am sure you must be feeling happy or
excited, may be you are smiling right now!!
The same happens when you think about
a difficult situation. You become sad or tense or anxious.
If your exam-related thoughts are
negative and persistent, then those will create anxiety, fear and apprehension
in you.
So what to do about these thoughts? The
answer is simple. Interpret those thoughts, by ‘Thought-Replacement-Technique.’
What it means is replacing your
negative thoughts with positive ones.
Think about your past achievements, your
present achievements, anything that makes you feel competent and confident.
Remember, it is a skill and you have
to practice to master it.
‘I will do it.’
‘I will give my best.’
‘I will pass this exam.’
‘I will focus on my readings.’
You can make your own positive
statements too; read those statements loud so that you can hear your voice. Talk
to yourself till the time you feel relaxed and focused.
You may think this will not work. I
have not heard anyone doing this. But all the successful people do talk to
themselves in positive way.
Try it and it may work for you too!!
Continued………..
Worth sharing!
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